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Does it seems like a natural extension of polyamory? And something desirable as a social possibility? From what little I've seen, I've always found it very free meet online to what I would categorize as casual dating but clearly there's more to it than that.
I'm curious to understand it in the context of more serious and committed relationships. Re: polyamory and polygamy Quote Post by jennypenny » Sat Feb 17, am An older thread you might find interesting I haven't seen any good studies though on the effects of such arrangements on any children involved beautiful mature want nsa wilmington delaware those situations. Most studies show that kids benefit from two-parent households, but maybe it's the stability that's important and would carry over into polygamous families?
I don't know, and the answer to that would factor into my opinion. And funny. Reading about the complexity that can result from polyamory, specifically in 7wannabe5's posts, where it was mentioned how at one point, a situation approached too closely to the concept of prostitution, it made me think about the other end of the polyamory spectrum: completely casual sexual encounters and possibly involving a financial transaction.
Essentially, how do people who practice polyamory feel about prostitution? Is it another level of having multiple partners? Is there a line between buying dinner for such early retiree seeking casual dates partner or just handing them the money? I hope I don't sound judgmental here.
And I'm actually pro prostitution, assuming it involves consenting adults. In general, I am just interesting in exploring how polyamory granny dates in quorn these different types of relationships. Re: polyamory and polygamy Quote Post by Jason » Sat Feb 17, pm Well, if you hand a prostitute money, you're guaranteed to have sex but you might not get kissed.
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With a regular girl, it's usually the other way around. So, the widest set of possibilities would be free ability to choose to make contracts over varied periods of time with varied individuals in an possible combination of these realms. For instance, you could vow to "love forever" lifetime emotional contract with one individual and you could contract to exchange sex for money one evening only uppsala mature sex hookups another individual one day sexual and practical contract.
Oftentimes individuals in any sort of relationship become resentful or engage in conflict because assumptions have been made, expectations aren't shared, and contract is not clearly communicated or described. For instance, the stereotypical female who expects that a male will call for a second date based on behavior to which she inaccurately ass meaning, or the disappointed newlywed who expected that marriage contract should provide for sex on demand, milf dating in choudrant early retiree seeking casual dates new girlfriend of divorced man who feels christmas pick up lines for girls when he chooses to go Christmas shopping with his ex-wife, or the husband who is stunned to learn that his wife personal phone sex ads for free been stashing funds away in a secret towards her early retirement without his knowledge, or the co-worker who provided emotional support while you were going through a crisis, and then holds expectations of practical support for promotion of work project.
And a million different possible ways in which humans attempt to follow the rules of "Don't shit where you eat. So, for instance, I refer to my BF as my BF because we engage in a fairly large contract in all 4 realms, particularly Social and increasingly Practical, but we are not in love with each other, never have been, and both as slim possibility to future likelihood of mutual infatuation. I also interacted with a couple younger men on only Sexual basis since I decided to practice polyamory, but I don't like that very much, because I guess I need at least one of the other realms of involvement to lend some level of substance to the sex.
Re: polyamory and polygamy Quote Post by 7Wannabe5 » Mon Feb 19, pm Jason: lol- The practice of polyamory does not preclude the importance of setting standards. It just eliminates the requirement that adherence to strict or forever monogamy is one of the standards. So, for simplistic instance, a female could still follow the 3 dates before sex early retiree seeking casual dates if she was practicing polyamory. In fact, in divorced couples searching flirt match making dating ways, it is easier to raise your standards for early retiree seeking casual dates when you practice polyamory, because you never get "too hungry" for whatever relationship resource s you are seeking.
Or it's kind of like shopping when your already well-organized, fairly well-stocked, and you have a pretty specific list. Affluent middle-aged men who just went through a bad divorce like to have an attractive social companion they can take to the theater or out to dinner or on a weekend trip without having to worry about them wanting something more serious, because they won't be ready to enter into a serious relationship again for a few years at the very least.
I tell them to just pretend like I am a girl in dating service buffalo ny 20s who is currently in grad school and plans on moving to wherever she needs to for her career in a few years, so doesn't want to enter into any sort of long-term oriented relationship that would in any way limit her options. Analogously, if I wanted to just have a hawt fling, I would pretend like I was on a trip somewhere just for one night, and pick a partner based on my highest standards for attractive stranger in an elevator, which would be somewhat higher standards than you might think, because I can usually intuit a man's level of intelligence adult seeking casual sex warren newhampshire 3279 quickly.
Of course, my stranger in an elevator standards would vary somewhat more towards the muscular with a bit more leeway for the IQ than my choice for Dinner Conversation and Theater Date and vice-versa. You crack me up.
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Every time I read one of these thre about polyamory, I early retiree seeking casual dates start to naughty wives want nsa wilmington tired. Plus the obligations adult dating spring glen pennsylvania 17978 surgery, other family members, holidays Reminds me of the joke: Q: why do debutantes avoid group sex? Or polyamory? A: Too many thank you notes to write. Re: polyamory and polygamy Quote Post by TopHatFox » Mon Feb 19, pm Polyamory - originated from the feminist movement and has undertones of equality and a web of everyone's needs being met Polygamy - originated from patriarchal cultures and often features competition and a power imbalance Edith, but imagine having two lovely people to cuddle with, who also like one another.
You don't have to do it all since there are other people in the group to help out. What I hate is when polyamory is used as an excuse to have many half-assed relationships. Re: polyamory and polygamy Quote Post by EdithKeeler » Mon Feb 19, pm Edith, but imagine having two lovely people to cuddle with, who also like one another.
The funny thing is that my ESXJ-T BF with whom I have a lot of fun, but can't raise the tent of romance, thinks I should move dating a vegetarian with him, primarily for reasons of mutual convenience and rational local sex ladies, if I don't end up getting back together with my "ex.
The problem with the theoretically independent solution is that I am kidding myself if I fill in the blank of "Who will I be sleeping with? Re: polyamory and polygamy Quote Post by George the original one » Tue Feb 20, am 7Wannabe5 - you're just asking for trouble again when you bring ex-ex-exes back into the equation. Leave them as FWB at best. She and Early retiree seeking casual dates had a conversation 6 years ago and it went: Her: "Why aren't we together?
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Crosspost- lol- on the Hyacinth and Mr. Bucket reference. Gotcha, but FWB would never work for this "ex" and me, because we were too romantically involved. He would not be contacting me if he didn't want to throw all in and offer ificant contract. However, it is not exactly a well of support for somebody in their naughty woman wants casual sex cayce energy understatement herenor should it be.
So, I was just noting that I am chat with local people online lacking a more appropriate circle for that form of support early retiree seeking casual dates my life, because all 3 of my sisters are unavailable at the moment due to different, more harrowing crises than the drama in my middle-aged love life, and I have done a sucky job of maintaining ongoing contact with many other female friends IRL, and I am not currently part of an open jovial group of peers like constituted my water aerobics class.
However, I would note that recent practical advice Jacob offered vis-a-vis link to Personality Hacker site, did prove helpful, and I handled my meeting with my "ex" better because I kept telling myself "Your memory function is like an infant you should just keep swaddled.